My Perspective On My Life - 785 Words

My mom always says â€Å"Amigos son un peso en el bolsillo† In other words, friends are there one day and gone by the other, just like money. Moreover, the English equivalent is ‘fair weather friends’. I have to admit that I did not always agree with my mother. However, at the time I moved from Puerto Rico to Texas my perspective on friendships changed. There may be some people who believe that friends are forever, but, because of my past experience that has led me to believe that real friends do not exist. After my move from Puerto Rico to Texas, obviously many things changed, including my perspective of friendships. When I lived in Puerto Rico I had many friends, which meant the world to me, and I trusted them one hundred percent. For example, I can recall every time I had an argument with a boyfriend, I would send every message to my friends, and we would all figure out an awesome and intense response that would leave them crawling back. Also, the times we had our slumber parties, and we would stay up talking, watching cheesy movies, eating junk food, putting on makeup and taking pictures. Or, even, that time at school that one of my friends had a breakdown and we all left class for her to try to cheer her up. And, especially, when they threw me a going away party, we all talked about how we were going to video chat every day and how we would keep in touch. However, it changed once I actually moved. Slowly all of us just lost contact and now I don’t talk to any of them. As aShow MoreRelatedMy Personal Perspective On My Life883 Words   |  4 PagesOne of my spheres of influence is my family. I am both a wife and a mother. I have been married to the same wonderful man for 20 years and we have two beautiful daughters together. Our oldest daughter, Heather, is 19 years old and our youngest daughter, Rebecca is 17 years old. Heather is a senior in college and started student teaching this week. 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